Now, we’ve come to the crux of the matter. And the question is understandable. You are spending your hard-earned dollars for this book, after all. Do not waste your money if the principles in the book do not work.
There is a need to temper yourself a bit, however. The book doesn’t claim to provide the magic potion to cure all flaws in relationships. Relationships are so complex that diluting the causes of quarrel into black and white is not possible. But there are some sensible guidelines in there which can help point you in the right direction.
The steps may be clear but they need the commitment of the reader to follow through with all the techniques. The book also requires a lot of faith from the woman because some of the steps can be quite daring for some women, and perhaps even embarrassing for some. However, we really could not discount the hundreds of testimonies out there from women who swear by the product.
At the very least, the book teaches the women how to spot the visual and verbal cues from a man to determine what they desire. Again, it’s more than the physical needs of the man. Men would just as well cheat than admit their true feelings. This abhorrence to showing weakness epitomizes his need to be the hero in his story.
If you can anticipate that your man is no longer happy, then you can immediately do something about it. It’s like applying balm to the wound before it festers.
We’ve come across criticisms about the book being manipulative. Arguments could say it is selfless. When you think about it, a good chunk of the book is about changing the behavior and state of mind of the women in order to keep their man. In essence, you are giving your man what he wants.